Comments on Bloorb: Fresh nor Frozen?

I wonder if there's ever a stopping point. Ever re...

2008-09-08T07:59:00.000-07:00

I wonder if there's ever a stopping point. Ever really a point where you say, "I'm definitely done, there's no more, FINIS!"

I'm not there yet, despite two pregnancies, one miscarriage, four kids, and a lot of sleep deprivation. What is WRONG with me?

I hope that this cycle is the one for you so that you don't have to keep wondering where the endgame is for you. I hope that

I am having some of the same thoughts run through ...

2008-09-06T05:41:00.000-07:00

I am having some of the same thoughts run through my head. Since the last IVF flop, I've desperately tried (and mostly succeeded) in getting IF out of my head. It meant diving into other things and having this IF thing being a sideshow - which included not blogging as much. And, I'm so sorry that I didn't even know you were doing an FET! Being that you are one of my favorite reads!

Quite a conundrum, it seems. Just do what works fo...

2008-09-05T17:47:00.000-07:00

Quite a conundrum, it seems. Just do what works for you guys. I know that this has been (and is) a hard and crappy road. And while it's completely unfair, I'm glad that you're able to find some kind of peace with it all.

I hope you can both come to a decision about this ...

2008-09-05T16:23:00.000-07:00

I hope you can both come to a decision about this that makes you happy...but, more than that, I hope this FET works for you.

I hope you can both reach a point where you are co...

2008-09-05T16:10:00.000-07:00

I hope you can both reach a point where you are comfortable with the next step, whatever that may be.

You're a good person to want to potentially do thi...

2008-09-05T12:39:00.000-07:00

You're a good person to want to potentially do this again for your husband's sake. I hear what you're saying on the implacations though... extra embryos to freeze etc..

I hope you make the right decision for you. But wait, hang in there. Let's see what your ute has to say first.

Wow, what a good post. Not because it's all full p...

2008-09-05T11:25:00.000-07:00

Wow, what a good post. Not because it's all full positiveness or happiness...but b/c of how open it is. Thank you for that.

It is hard to think about when enough is enough for all of us. Sometimes you're head has to decide for your heart...or vice versa.

However, whatever you decide after this cycle, I wish you the best. BUT, and that's a major BUT, I hope that this outcome

Good luck! I hope this works for you!

2008-09-05T11:06:00.000-07:00

Good luck! I hope this works for you!

I'm with you Chicklet - about the finding the pers...

2008-09-05T08:53:00.000-07:00

I'm with you Chicklet - about the finding the person who makes you laugh each day and finding a different kind of happiness if one decides to walk away...

I'm praying that you won't have to make that choice!

xxx

i so want this one to be the one... xomegan

2008-09-05T08:30:00.000-07:00

i so want this one to be the one... xomegan

Girl.. I know exactly what you mean.. ~HUGS~

2008-09-05T08:19:00.001-07:00

Girl.. I know exactly what you mean.. ~HUGS~

The cycle I did completely relax and not stress ab...

2008-09-05T08:19:00.000-07:00

The cycle I did completely relax and not stress about it - too emotionally worn down at that point I think - is the one that worked for me. I don't tell people that (well, besides you) because I don't want to be one of "those" stories that infertiles get told.

I can totally see where you are coming from. Even...

2008-09-05T07:47:00.000-07:00

I can totally see where you are coming from. Even though we are early in our journey it feels like we are putting off so much. And what if pregnancy never happens? We will be left with years that are like a black hole in our history together.

Maybe your next chapter has already been decided for you - just a few more days and you will find out!

It is such a tough call and I can totally see what...

2008-09-05T05:39:00.000-07:00

It is such a tough call and I can totally see what you are saying. I hope the outcome of this means that call won't have to be made.

Chicklet, I hope whatever the outcome you figure o...

2008-09-04T23:21:00.000-07:00

Chicklet, I hope whatever the outcome you figure out the best path for you. It's a hard road,

J

yep. it's tough to walk away but its even harder ...

2008-09-04T21:58:00.000-07:00

yep. it's tough to walk away but its even harder when you're not in the same place about what's next. wishing you well in the wait and hoping you won't have to think about that...